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Because I enjoy cold emptiness, I have been reading Kureishi's Intimacy while listening to Death Cab for Cutie's new EP, Stability. Both the novella and the EP are stark stark stark, and make me feel as if my layers are being slowly frozen and crushed into some kind of organic powdered snow.

You wouldn't believe how pure Intimacy feels, how weird and transparent and filled with conflicts that are too icy to be angstful. It makes me feel so empty I can't even cry.

The weird thing is that the book is nothing, plotwise, like the movie.1 The movie centered around a protagonist's weekly trysts with a woman he didn't know at all. The book is about the night before a protagonist leaves his girlfriend and their two children, and his thoughts. The words have the same jumpy resonance of Wittgenstein's Mistress, and the same echoing truths of, well, Kureishi's other stuff.

Wait, correction. That's not the weird thing. The weird thing is how the book's tone is exactly like the movie's even though the book's plot is nothing like the movie's. They have the same all-too-true emptiness. The protagonist's recognition of responsibility, at least in part. But the coexistence of hope for the future, despite it all. And the transience, always the consistency of transience.

The relationship between the book and the movie was similar, too, for Ghost World. The remarkable similarity in tone and atmosphere, given the plot differences. As if under an impressionist's scheme, the book and the movie would be the same work. Anyway, I think it's pretty neat how this was done.

But so much for my wonder at this. I've overwhelmed myself with cold now, and it's time to warm up. The danger of this type of immersion is that I will stay too long, and dwell in it, just to soak up as much of this feeling as I can. Because after awhile, it's hard to get out.


post-note: As usual, I find that someone else has pointed out what I could not point out, and has done it much better than if I had even tried to do so. From Ben Marcus, in a book review (of another book) in the News and Observer: "Yates makes you think for a while that no other outcome is even likely, but the upside is that we do things, we live, we have relationships, for their intrinsic pleasure, and not as a guarantee. His bleakness is in fact an argument for joy right now."

Yes. That's it.

Read the last paragraph of Intimacy. It does exactly that.

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1. Okay, upon reading the short stories that come with the novella, I now see plot bits from which the movie is pieced together.